Tag Archives: God

Jan23

With This Ring

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With This Ring

Please don’t say that word…SINGLE, why are so many singles running from it. Has it become the new hush word. Many are so willing to run to the altar with anyone who is willing to say I do. Been there, and let me tell you… I was not ready. Can we be honest with ourselves, many of us are not ready to submit to the needs of others. Being single is a beautiful position to reside, until God permits the time to join the man or women he has for you. Until then go before the throne of the father and ask him what must I do? Get busy singles to prepare yourselves as a living sacrifice, you are beautiful, intelligent, love God, and yes SINGLE. For now embrace it and enjoy your moment, use your time wisely living up to the call of the almighty. Stop trying to find that man or woman, allow God to be the match maker…if not you will continue to have tainted relationships with a heart filled with blemishes of shame, insecurities, and sheets that are torn by  false commitments.  Trust me, I’ve encountered married couples who wish they were still single.REALLY… yep. Maybe the timing wasn’t right or they did it for all the wrong reasons. The choices we make without God eventually leads to an inward battle of regrets and consequences. Marriage is definitely a wonderful union, especially when GOD is placed in the forefront. I personally will love the day when God connects me with the man of God he will present in my life to complement me, yes I say complement not complete. Only God can complete you, a marriage, another person, career, or having children will not complete you. Before marriage, commit yourselves to God for completion.

May26

Bag Lady

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Bag Lady

I have to admit I’m a bag fanatic…I love hobo style bags with pockets, but sometimes the pockets annoy me because I forget stuff like my favorite lip gloss and sometimes cash, inside the mini compartments all the time.  However, one day I glanced at all the bags that surrounded me and decided to clean each to see what missing treasures awaited me. As I ventured inside the deep compartments of my collections… I found many items that I thought were lost or simply misplaced. As I continued to search, my focus shifted to how I viewed my life in comparison to the emotional baggage that imprisoned me. My life is composed of many talents and skills that I have been blessed with or developed in some way, unfortunately just like each bag I collected over the years, emotional pain associated its presence and took ownership. The mini compartments inside of me contained treasures hidden away and covered, I was so unaware of my potential as a woman of the most high, that I allowed the enemy to redirect  my power  into low self-esteem, doubt, and soul ties of ungodly relationships. But despite  of it all, God’s amazing love has transformed  a new discovery of every talent, skill, and God’s covering over my life. Releasing the clutter of contents now disposed in God’s wastebasket of healing.

Apr23

Wounds In The Way

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Wounds In The Way

The heart is the strongest organ in the body with multiple functions. It’s functions trigger responses based on the negative or positive feedback system from the world that surrounds us. But what happens when those close to us endanger the vital component of the heart known as love. The core of the heart’s existence of love deteriorates when abandonment, rejection, abuse, and deep pain takes ownership. As women we tend to the accept falsified love which leads to deep layers of emotional pain. Pain is so powerful that it destroys families, relationships, and devalue self-worth.  The brokenhearted woman finds healing when she chooses to believe again – to believe that she will live, to believe that she will experience love again, to believe that God will restore and heal her broken heart.